For 4,500 individuals of forty nationalities

Shigeharu Matsumoto

On October 5, 1982, the International House of Japan celebrated the 30th anniversary of its founding in Tokyo. More than 100 distinguished intellectuals and government and business leaders, all interested in the work of international cultural exchange, were present.

On that occasion, three American friends were our special guest: Blanchette  Rockefeller, representing her late husband John D Rockefeller, 3rd, Donald H McLean,Jr. and Martha, his wife.

The International House of Japan was incorporated under Japanese law on August 27, 1952, as a private organization devoted to the cause of international cultural and academic exchange. For the preceding ten months, a Cultural Center Preparatory Committee, with me as executive secretary, worked hard to find and acquire premises, deliberate on the legal format, devise a program of international cultural exchange, and prepare the financial bases for bringing it about. John D. Rockefeller and Don McLean, his chief associate, came to Tokyo in the autumn of 1951 and again the following spring for the discussions with me and the late professor Yasaka Takagi, my mentor.

Don and I were destined to meet almost every day. We had some twenty close discussions before we finally drafted our initial application to the Rockefeller Foundation for a grant. The planned cultural center, later named the International House of Japan, was something completely new to this country. The Japanese members of the Preparatory Committee were unanimous in insisting that the center must have its own premises, while the Rockefeller Foundation was resolute in rejecting any kind of grant application that included acquisition of real estate. The Foundation had been generous in making grants to universities, as well as the Diet Library, and naturally was particular about the kinds of application would consider. Meeting the requirements of the Foundation on one hand and the express advice of the Japanese committee members on the other, Don and I worked it out by mutual agreement as to the desired land and then secured its purchase. We of course had countless other problems to resolve before eventually agreeing on every point. At length, on May 31, 1953, Don left Tokyo with our application for a grant to the Rockefeller Foundation.

During these discussions, I found Don McLean a person of patience, of foresight, of warm sentiment and shining character. After this initial work was done, Don continued to be deeply interested in the development of the International House, even after he was no longer associated with Rockefeller. Our friendship continued, even deepened, after he became president of the Leahy Clinic Foundation. He was guardian for my son Ken when he was a student at Swarthmore; he was also guardian for my daughter Misao when she was a student at Vassar.

In my office, I have a magnificent picture of Don that greets me every day. I have been affiliated with the International House now for thirty three years. A day rarely passes that I do not think of Don and his friendship and many American friends I value none above him.

The International House of Japan, which in a real sense he help to make, is now well-established. Its membership numbers above 4,500 individuals of 40 nationalities. Its annual budget exceeds ¥1 billion, with income and expenditures in good balance. For a long time to come we shall remember the name of Donald H McLean, Jr. and his distinguished contribution to this organization

Shigeharu Matsumoto, was the principle Japanese citizen involved in the founding of the International House of Japan. An international journalist, lawyer, writer, and executive, he served as the first managing director of the International House.

Uncle Don

Ken Matsumoto

Don McLean begin visiting Tokyo office in the autumn of 1951 because of his work for the Preparatory Committee of the International House of Japan, work in which Doctor Yasaka Takagi and my father were also deeply involved. He occasionally came to our house and shared dinner with our family. His cheerful nature charmed all of us from the beginning. I was allowed to call this frequent guest Uncle Don, a privilege I enjoyed throughout our long relationship. My mother was greatly impressed by Uncle Don, and my father always praised him as one of the most exceptional man he had ever known, regardless of nationality. The three children, Hiroshi, Misao, and myself, could not speak English well but we were delighted when Uncle Don visited.

In the summer of 1954, I traveled from Japan to the United States to enroll at Swarthmore College, Uncle Don and his wife, Martha, invited me to stay at their home in Summit, New Jersey, whenever I want during my four years of college. They asked me to celebrate almost every Thanksgiving and Christmas with them. I also spent many of my summer vacations at their home. Occasionally my mother, my sister Misao, and my high school friend Yuji Ito joined us. The McLeans treated me with love and respect, like a member of their family. Those days were full of rest and enjoyment.

When I stayed in the McLean's home, I saw advice from Uncle Don. It was usually late at night, when he was just about to retire. He was never reluctant to listen and always heard me out with great patience. The problems I needed to discuss included academic matters and my future career. When I finish talking, he often said reassuringly, “Ken, I would not worry about it so much. You are doing okay." His words of encouragement strengthened my resolve to meet future challenges.

Because of my inadequate English, the academic requirements at Swarthmore were difficult. Years later, Uncle Don told me, "I was concerned about you in those early days because your English ability was not very good.” Indeed, without the warm and wise support of Uncle Don and his family, I might have failed in my studies

The McLeans provided me with a valuable introduction to American family life, ways of thinking, and culture. Since I trusted Uncle Don so deeply, I believed I could trust other Americans, too. He made me forget that he was American and I was Japanese. Uncle Don was a truly international man.

Late one afternoon in August 1958, I sat with Uncle Don in his office at Rockefeller Plaza in New York. I was scheduled to board a freighter in Brooklyn bound for Japan at 10 that evening. I had a problem: how to transfer my heavy steamer trunk weighing eighty pounds from McLean's home in Summit to Brooklyn. We had only a few hours before the freighter departed. Uncle Don’s station wagon was at his summer house in Québec, and no taxi driver was willing to transport such a heavy trunk.

Uncle Don called several friends in Summit and tried to borrow a station wagon. It wasn't easy to find, but he was persistent and eventually persuaded a friend to drive us to Brooklyn in his Jeep. Uncle Don accompanied me after work and we hurried to Summit by train. We then drove quickly and arrived at the pier in Brooklyn just in time. We carried the trunk into my cabin on the freighter. Uncle Don took a small box out of his pocket. It contained a set of cufflinks that he had purchased in Japan. “I'll give these to my friend who drove us here, I'll tell him they are a gift from you, so don't worry about any further obligation to thank him," Uncle Don explained quietly. I looked at Uncle Don silently, overwhelmed by his boundless consideration. He was indeed a noble man

One bit of uncle Don's advice that I recall from time to time is "First things first." He told me this when I was a freshman in college. When I attended graduate school in Tokyo five years later, I received a letter from Uncle Don in which she wrote, "I hope you are still putting first things first." He remained concerned with my personal development and achievements even after I returned to Japan.

In March, 1977, my wife Junko and I were preparing to leave Auburn, New York, where we lived for three years. I had worked as a board member of a small Japanese-owned steel mill. To attend our farewell dinner, Uncle Don and Martha flew in from Andover, Massachusetts. Uncle Don gave me a standing ovation for my farewell speech. He also wrote the two page letter describing the occasion to Dr. Takagi in Tokyo. In the letter, Uncle Don told of the good relations I had developed with my American colleagues throughout the company. It was Uncle Don who helped me to understand Americans and to be confident when working with them.

In September 1982, Uncle Don returned to Tokyo with Martha to celebrate the 30th anniversary of the International House of Japan, an organization to which he made immeasurable contributions. On that occasion, he presented me with a magnificent picture of himself upon which she had written, “To Ken, with pleasant memories of your days as a member of our family in summit. Don.”  Written or spoken, his words were always the expressions of sincere affection and encouragement to me.

He exemplified a man of high ideals. He was an inspiration to me and will continue to be so. My life has been influenced and enriched enormously through my association with him. 

I hope that I will be able to treat others in the kind way Uncle Don always treated me. My experiences with him we're blessings.

Ken Matsumoto was in effect of member of the McLean family while he was a student at Swarthmore College. An officer in steel companies in Japan and United States, he has,  since 1984, been director of the Fair Trade Center in Japan.